Skills When Communicating With Women"
|The first step
to becoming successful with women is this:
Learn to have basic conversational skills.
You MUST be able to talk to anyone at anytime --
As simple as it may sound, this should be the first
you MUST simply master.
And WHY must you do this?
Well, think about it -- if you're able to literally
anyone AS and WHEN you like, don't you think you'll
subconciously be improving your social
skills with people in general?
The idea for you to do so is so that you become more
COMFORTABLE talking to people.
Forget whether it's with a guy or a girl for the
Just make 'talking to people' second nature for you.
If you're shy with the girls, then a good place to
is with the guys - especially the guys who are
great with the ladies.
Use them as practice.
Think about it, common sense tells you if you can't
feel comfortable talking to guys, what makes you
you'll be better off with the girls?
You can learn A LOT from these so-called 'players'
Remember, the fastest way for you to become great
is to MODEL after those who are ALREADY achieving
success that you want with women at the moment.
I have explained this technique in great detail
You see, once you're comfortable talking with the
you can start moving forward and try talking to the
Remember: make GRADUAL improvements -- on a daily
Think about it: If you can gradually improve your
conversational skills by a mere 1% each day
by the very end of the month, your conversational
would have improved by a whopping 30%!
NEVER underestimate the power of gradual
The next key step is for you to TAKE ACTION.
Can you imagine how much more fun your life would be
you'll be able to just walk up and talk to any girl
With this skill in hand, you'll be able to mess
any girl you choose, anywhere you like!
It could be just be the sales girl from your local
mall, to the waitress who serves you coffee, to even
girl sitting next to you in the bus stop!
Here's something you should also know when it comes
talking to women.
Most guys tend to try TOO HARD when they're talking
woman -- a beautiful one especially.
They'll tend to be way too accomodating, friendly &
'complimentary' to the her which is exactly the
that most 'alpha males' should be doing.
This is also EXACTLY the way that 90% of guys would
they're talking to a woman which is wrong, wrong,
What you SHOULD be doing in fact, is to NOT project
that you're trying TOO HARD to gain their attention.
Remember: Be DIFFERENT.
For examples on how to be indifferent, it's all
great detail in my book at
You see, most guys, especially the shy ones, they
tend to be
too afraid in trying something funny or something
especially if its with a beautiful woman.
My question for you is this?
What's the worst that could happen to you if you
But before we go into that, let me tell you this,
really is a FACT. More often than not, the worst
you would normally think off, will most likely NOT
It's just your mind playing silly 'ol tricks on ya,
Now, worst case scenario is even if you DID fall
flat on your
face, at least you did something DIFFERENT, unlike
other losers that said the same lame,
that she's so accustomed to all along.
You see, if you really want to be great with women,
be a super 'ALPHA' bloke -- a guy who's NOT afraid
his mind AND do the right thing in any given
and be the leader of the pack.
Not be all wimpy and accommodating and stuff...
Think about it -- then go out and DO it.
You'll SEE the difference right away.
And you can thank me later, ok? ;-)
[About the Author]: Simon Heong is the
publisher of the
Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the
Attraction Program" -- the community's MOST
program revealing the most intimate secrets on
attraction techniques and dating strategies.
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