Does An Average Looking Joe Stand-Out From The Other
Guys And Have Women Picking Him Over The Rest"
|"If you want
to be truly successful with women, you've got to
learn ways to create instant attraction with women"
What does the words "create attraction" really mean?
Ok - think of it this way...
Physically attractive, hot looking women have TONS
when it comes to men.
Whether they like it or not, they are approached by
Now, if you've an average looking or probably
'unattractive' kinda guy -- how do YOU stand out
from the rest
How do these physically attrac.tive women choose
What makes them sit up and take notice then?
Guys think that they will score better with a woman
physically attractive... this is where their DEAD
Instead, women find men with strong character &
traits much more APPEALING to them.
Simply put -- CHARACTER & PERSONALITY are what women
most ATTRACTIVE in men. NOT looks.
Get that in your head.
How do you attract them?
Be flirtingly playful:
- Send mixed signals (make her laugh, give her an
time, let her think you're interested in her, then
suddenly walk away)
- Be a mystery to her (when she asks for your name,
give her a direct answer, if she asks for your
tell her you're a crocodile hunter, the point is to
her guessing, etc)
- Tease her (if she wants something from you, tell
has to EARN it)
- Dominant (being the one in control of the
never allowing others to effect it)
What you must understand is in order for you to
attraction, you've got to first spark and then
se.xual attraction in her for you by communicating
through playful verbal and non-verbal flirting.
Attraction is created by playfully flirting, using
and demonstrating personality traits that women find
appealing to her... at the same time projecting
CONTROL of the situation in a very laid back &
In order to create attraction then, you must
be using it on a woman.
You can't just use it "once in a while."
Instead, you've got to use it ALL THE TIME when
with woman you're eye-ing for. And once you've done
enough, and IF you did it the 'right' way, you'll
how women will open up to you & start flirting back
you in a playful, sensual and exciting way as
Let me give you an example...
If you say something like "Hi, my name's John. I
help but notice how beautiful you are and I just had
come up and get to know you"...
This is NOT flirting.
Instead, you could go
Her: So are you here alone?
You: I'm not answering that.
Her: Why not?
You: How would I know if you're not a serial
Her: Hey (laughs) -- do I look like one?
You: Do you REALLY want to know the answer? ;-)
Do you get what I'm trying to say here?
I'm taking an everyday, casual question and turning
something playful & fun with her.
You see, when you communicate to her in this manner,
FLIRTING, being playful & TEASING her in a way that
And the moment you get her 'into' this sort of
conversation, you begin to quickly spark that inner
attraction in her.
Women generally aren't attracted to guys who
submit in to their demands, they want someone
fun and EXCITING.
It's absolutely crucial for you to get this right
very beginning when you're dating women.
[About the Author]: Simon Heong is the
publisher of the
Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the
Attraction Program" -- the community's MOST
program revealing the most intimate secrets on
attraction techniques and dating strategies.
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